You’re putting off making a decision
Do you want me to get you a coffee? Do you want to go to the movies? Are you planning to go to study abroad? If you are constantly thinking over the answers to even the most trivial questions, then unwittingly your indecision is broadcast to those around you. There is no need to overthink the consequences of decisions: the movie may turn out to be bad, the coffee may not taste good, and the opportunity to study elsewhere may not bring happiness. But none of this means you shouldn’t try. It’s better to do than to regret missed opportunities.
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Agree with everyone
If you put the opinion of others above your own, then don’t be surprised that one day society won’t reckon with you. You can’t please everyone, especially since the obliging nature of many is annoying, in fact. And then people get used to being indulged. A hundred times you help – they will forget, once you refuse – remember.
